A Renewed Mind

Renewing Your Mind: The Path to Spiritual Transformation

Have you ever felt stuck in your spiritual journey? Many Christians step through the gate of salvation but never go deeper into what God has for them. Today, I want to invite you on a journey toward spiritual transformation through renewing your mind.

What Does It Mean to Go Beyond Salvation?

There are many people who will be in heaven who only stepped through the gate of salvation and nothing more. They put their faith in Jesus for salvation, but they don't take any further steps into the kingdom. They're essentially running around with their helmet of salvation on and nothing else.

But God calls us to more. He invites us to press deeper into what He has for us. This isn't about works-based salvation - we're saved by grace through faith. However, faith without works is dead, and our works flow from a transformed mind and heart.

Why Should We Care About Renewing Our Mind?

One day, we will all stand before Christ in judgment. Not just to determine heaven or hell, but to have every idle word, action, and intention examined. What was done with pure intentions will stand, while everything else will be burned away.

How many of us want to get to heaven only to discover that everything we did in our lives, except for accepting Jesus, was worthless? Instead, we should desire to do something that matters, lasts, and is eternal. We cannot do that unless we press deeper and renew our minds.

Is God More Concerned About Our Actions or Our Hearts?

God is more concerned about changing our hearts than our actions. Why? Because if your heart changes, your actions will naturally follow. Many religious people focus on changing actions first, hoping the heart will catch up. But Jesus addressed this when He said:

"You honor me with your lips, but your heart is far from me."

We don't want to be people who honor God with our actions while our hearts remain far from Him. Those are the people who might discover they weren't actually saved because they weren't truly transformed.

Understanding Our Three-Part Nature

To understand how renewal works, we need to understand how we're made:

1. Spirit - The core of who we are, which connects with God

2. Soul - Our mind, will, and emotions

3. Body - Our physical flesh

When Adam and Eve sinned, their spirits died immediately. This spiritual death passed to all humanity. When we accept Christ, our spirits are made alive again - this is what it means to be "born again." Our spirits are instantly renewed and made perfect.

However, our souls (mind, will, emotions) are not instantly transformed. They are being transformed through a process of renewal. And our bodies will be transformed when Christ returns.

How Do We Renew Our Minds?

Romans 12:2 tells us: "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God."

The word "transformed" here is the Greek word "metamorphosis" - a complete change, like a caterpillar becoming a butterfly. This transformation happens through the renewing of our minds.

Here are practical steps to renew your mind:

1. Start with Humble Repentance

Psalm 19:12-14 provides a beautiful prayer to begin with: "How can I know the sins lurking in my heart? Cleanse me from these hidden faults... May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing to you, O Lord."

Start by asking God to reveal what needs to change in your thinking.

2. Throw Off the Old, Put On the New

Ephesians 4:22-24 instructs us to "throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life" and to "let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes."

This is like pruning a plant. Just as a gardener cuts away dead branches to allow new growth, we must identify and remove old thought patterns that don't align with God's Word.

3. Let Scripture Change Your Thinking, Not Just Fill Your Memory

Renewing your mind isn't about memorizing Scripture - the Pharisees knew Scripture, but their minds weren't renewed. It's about letting Scripture change how you think.

You can quote 2 Timothy 1:7 ("God has not given me a spirit of fear") all day long, but if you continue thinking, "I'm just an anxious person," the Scripture hasn't renewed your mind.

4. Recognize This Is a Process

Transformation doesn't happen overnight. Some things might change quickly, but many areas will take time. This is a lifelong journey of becoming more like Christ every day.

Life Application

This week, I challenge you to begin the process of mind renewal by taking these steps:

1. Identify one area where your thinking doesn't align with God's Word. It might be anxiety, unforgiveness, a negative self-image, or how you view others.

2. Find Scripture that addresses this area and meditate on it daily. Don't just read it - think deeply about what it means and how it should change your perspective.

3. Speak to your soul daily. Just as David said, "Bless the Lord, O my soul." Speak truth to yourself. Tell your mind what to think rather than letting your thoughts control you.

Remember, this isn't about condemnation. It's an invitation to go deeper with God. We're all on this journey together, and with the Holy Spirit's help, our minds can be renewed to reflect the life of Christ within us.

I Can Because He Says I Can.

I Can Do All Things Through Christ: Embracing God's Promises

When we come together to worship, we should come with anticipation that God will show up. What we get out of our time with God depends on what we put into it. If we come prepared to receive, God will work in us and accomplish His plan for our lives.

What Does Philippians 4:13 Really Mean?

"I can because He said so." This simple statement carries profound truth. I can lay hands on the sick and they shall recover. I can speak to my mountain and it must move. I can submit to God, resist the devil, and he will flee. Why? Because God said so.

Too often, we get caught up in things beyond our control, forgetting that we can do what God says we can do. Some people may have told you that you would never be saved, healed, delivered, or set free. Others might have said you wouldn't amount to anything. But what matters is what God says about you.

Philippians 4:13 tells us, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." This changes everything. Stop focusing on your failures and faults. Instead, allow Jesus and the Holy Spirit to work in and through you.

Why Do We Limit Ourselves When God Says We Can?

Throughout Scripture, we see great men who doubted God's call:

• Moses tried to disqualify himself because of a speech impediment

• Jeremiah claimed he was just a child and not ready

• Gideon argued he was the least qualified to deliver God's people

They all had different excuses but were saying the same thing: "I can't do it." But when God says you can, you can!

In the natural, things may not look possible. But God's Word is pregnant with possibility, potential, power, and life. We don't go by what we feel or see—we go by the Word of the Lord. That's what changes our circumstances.

How Can God's Word Transform Every Area of My Life?

The Word of God can move you:

• From sickness to health

• From weakness to strength

• From loser to winner

• From worry to worship

• From stress to blessed

• From fearful to fearless

• From lack to abundance

Faith is now—not tomorrow. Faith is simply doing what God said to do. It's believing and trusting His promises even when it doesn't look like they'll work.

What Does Philippians 4:13 Say in Different Translations?

The New Living Translation says: "I can do everything God asks me to do with the help of Christ who gives me the strength and power."

The Amplified Bible expands it further: "I can do all things which He has called me to do through Him who strengthens and empowers me to fulfill His purpose. I am self-sufficient in Christ's sufficiency; I am ready for anything and equal to anything through Him who infuses me with inner strength and confident peace."

We have limited ourselves by doubting God's power. God says we can, but we say we can't. Who's right? The church has the power to do more than it's doing, but we limit God and therefore limit ourselves.

Do I Really Have Enough Faith?

Many people say, "I just don't have enough faith." But Romans 12:3 tells us that "God has dealt to every man the measure of faith." Remember, you only need faith as small as a mustard seed to move mountains!

While we should build and strengthen our faith (as faith comes by hearing the Word of God), that doesn't mean we have no faith or cannot trust God to come through for us.

If we say "I can't" when God says we can, aren't we essentially telling God His Word isn't true? We can do all things through Christ and the power of His might.

How Do I Live in This Truth Daily?

Galatians 2:20 reminds us: "I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me."

It's not about you or me—it's about Christ living in us. He is our hope, our strength, and the one with all the answers. He took us when we were nothing and made us into somebody.

When the enemy attacks with lies contrary to God's Word, don't entertain those thoughts. The more time you give them, the stronger they become in your mind. Uproot those thoughts immediately by knowing what God's Word says.

What Authority Do I Have as a Believer?

Luke 10:19 says, "I have given you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall by any means hurt you."

You possess this authority now because of Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit. The enemy is under your feet, not above you. Romans 8:31 asks, "If God is for us, who can be against us?" What is preventing us from walking in victory?

Paul endured prison, beatings, shipwrecks, and being left for dead, yet remained faithful unto death. He was fully persuaded that he could do anything through Christ who strengthened him.

Victory Tips:

Life Application

This week, I challenge you to identify one area where you've been saying "I can't" and replace it with "I can through Christ." Write down Philippians 4:13 and speak it aloud daily until it becomes rooted in your heart.

Remember, the Word is a seed that grows when you keep speaking it. Soon you'll be walking around confidently saying, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me"—regardless of what your circumstances look like.

Ask yourself:

1. In what areas of my life am I limiting God by saying "I can't"?

2. How would my life change if I truly believed I could do all things through Christ?

3. What specific promise from God's Word do I need to stand on this week?

Don't just try—commit that you will do what God says. Through Christ, you are an overcomer, even when you don't feel like it. Trust Him in every area of your life, knowing His Word is true, powerful, and will transform you into what He wants you to be.

If It Ain’t Broke, Don’t Fix It?

Finding God's Will vs. What Just Works

Have you ever found yourself doing something simply because it works, without questioning whether it's actually God's will for your life? Many of us live by the old saying, "If it ain't broke, don't fix it." But what if something works in your life yet isn't aligned with God's Word?

What Does It Mean to Imitate God?

Ephesians 5:1 gives us a powerful instruction: "Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are his dear children." This isn't a suggestion—it's a command that covers every aspect of our lives.

The problem many Christians face is that we love Jesus and are saved, but we don't necessarily want God to completely overhaul our entire life. We have comfortable habits and patterns that seem to work well for us, and we're reluctant to change them.

But here's the truth: Just because something works for you doesn't mean it's from God.

When "Working" Isn't Enough

Consider these biblical examples:

• When Eve ate the forbidden fruit, did it "work"? Yes, her eyes were opened to know good and evil, just as Satan promised. But it wasn't God's will.

• When King Saul consulted a medium to speak with the dead prophet Samuel, did it "work"? Yes, Samuel actually appeared. But this practice was explicitly forbidden by God.

The reality is that many things in our lives might be "working" but are completely outside of God's design for us.

How Do We Know What's From God?

As Christians, we have two primary sources of guidance:

1. The Word of God

2. The Holy Spirit within us

These two will never contradict each other. If you believe the Holy Spirit is telling you something that contradicts Scripture, you're not hearing from the Holy Spirit.

Many Christians claim, "God told me to do this" when what they're planning directly contradicts Scripture. That's not God speaking—that's your own desires or, worse, deception.

The Deception of Following Your Heart

"Follow your heart" sounds nice, but it's not biblical advice. In fact, Jeremiah 17:9 tells us: "The human heart is the most deceitful of all things and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?"

Instead, Jeremiah 17:7-8 gives us the better path: "But blessed are those who trust in the Lord and have made the Lord their hope and confidence. They are like trees planted along a riverbank, with roots that reach deep into the water."

Are You a Potted Plant or a Riverside Tree?

Think about the difference between a small potted plant and a tree planted by a river:

• The potted plant requires constant attention and watering or it will die

• It produces minimal fruit

• It can't withstand harsh conditions

• It's easily moved from place to place

Meanwhile, a tree planted by the river:

• Has a constant source of water and nutrients

• Isn't bothered by heat or drought

• Stays green year-round

• Never stops producing fruit

Many Christians are like potted plants—they come to church for a "watering" once a week but dry up the rest of the time because their source isn't in Christ. They're not deeply rooted.

What's Your Source?

Ask yourself: what is the source of the things in your life that "work"?

• Is it tradition? ("My family has always done it this way")

• Is it yourself? (Your own understanding and wisdom)

• Is it your education? (What you learned in college)

• Is it social media? (What influencers tell you)

• Is it your friends? (Peer pressure and social norms)

None of these sources are inherently wrong if you bring them back to the Word of God for verification. But if any of these are your primary source of guidance without Scripture as your filter, you're building on sand.

Living as People of Light

Ephesians 5:8-10 tells us: "For once you were full of darkness, but now you have light from the Lord. So live as people of light! For this light within you produces only what is good and right and true. Carefully determine what pleases the Lord."

The light within us isn't meant just for ourselves—it's meant to shine for others. And we're called to "carefully determine what pleases the Lord" and then do it.

This isn't legalism if it comes from a heart of love. Just as a child wants to please their parent because they love them, we want to please God because we love Him.

God's Ways Are Higher

Isaiah 55:8-9 reminds us: "My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts, says the Lord. And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine. For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts."

God's Word and His truth don't always work the way we think they should, but they always work. His Word always produces fruit and accomplishes what He intends.

Life Application

This week, take time to examine your life through the lens of Scripture. Ask the Holy Spirit to show you any areas that aren't aligned with God's Word—even if they seem to be "working" for you.

Consider these specific areas:

1. Your marriage: Are you following biblical principles in how you relate to your spouse?

2. Your parenting: Are you raising your children according to God's Word or popular psychology?

3. Your finances: Are you handling money God's way or the world's way?

4. Your health: Where do you put your faith first when health issues arise?

Pray this prayer: "God, no matter what I have in my life that doesn't line up with you, I will change it and make it line up with your Word—even if it hurts, even if I have to change my whole life around."

Ask yourself:

• What areas of my life am I running on autopilot without considering God's design?

• Where have I been putting my trust in what "works" rather than in what God says?

• What would it look like to truly imitate God in everything I do?

• What's one specific change I can make this week to align more closely with God's Word?

Remember, God's Word always produces fruit. When you submit to Him, you will "live in joy and peace"—not because everything works out perfectly, but because you're living in alignment with your Creator's design.

The Key to Authority

The Key of Authority: Understanding Your Power Over the Enemy

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by life's challenges? Do you sometimes wonder if you have any real power against the negative forces that seem to work against you? The truth is, as believers, we possess something remarkable - a key of authority that represents our God-given power over the enemy.

What Does It Mean to Have Authority as a Believer?

We have authority in this life over the devil. Many Christians don't fully understand this truth, but Scripture makes it clear that we have been given authority not to allow the enemy to do the things he wants to do in our lives.

Interestingly, while polls show that 86-93% of Americans believe in God or a higher power, only 51% believe there is a devil. This disconnect creates a problem - how can we exercise authority over an enemy we don't acknowledge exists?

How Does the Enemy Attack Us?

The enemy attacks us in three primary areas:

1. Our soul (mind, will, and emotions)

2. Through the world system

3. Through our flesh

When the enemy comes against us, he targets our emotions, our will, and especially our mind. Have you been attacked in your mind this week? Your emotions? Your will? These are the battlegrounds where we must exercise our authority.

The Subtle Nature of the Enemy's Attacks

The world system wants to dictate what we do as Christians through books, movies, music, and media. Many of these attacks are subtle - you might not even realize they're happening. That's why it's crucial to stay focused on God's Word rather than natural circumstances.

When we focus on natural problems, we become worried, frustrated, aggravated, depressed, and fearful. This is exactly where the enemy wants our attention.

How Do We Renew Our Minds to Exercise Authority?

Ephesians 4:23 in the New Living Translation says, "Let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes." The Amplified version expands this: "Be continually renewed in the spirit of your mind, having a fresh, untarnished mental and spiritual attitude."

Similarly, Romans 12:2 instructs us not to be conformed to this world but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds, focusing on godly values and ethical attitudes.

This renewal process is critical because our focus determines our victory. We don't focus on the world system or what the world says - we focus on God's unchanging Word. My opinion doesn't matter; God's truth does. His Word isn't an opinion - it's truth that can change our situation.

Understanding the Difference Between Power and Authority

There's an important distinction between power and authority. Think of it this way: I could give someone a key to the church to hold for me. They would have the power to enter the building (they physically possess the key), but they wouldn't have my authority to do so.

A door is meant to be a barrier, but if you possess the key, that barrier no longer hinders you. As Christians, we possess the key to the kingdom of God, which means we have authority over everything that would hinder us - including the enemy.

Examples of Delegated Authority

Authority is delegated power. God has given us His authority to walk in this earth and live the life He has chosen for us.

Consider a police officer directing traffic. All they need to do is raise their hand, and traffic stops. They don't physically stop vehicles with their strength - they use the authority delegated to them by the communities they serve.

Similarly, when we became born again and redeemed by the blood of Jesus, we received this key of authority. The question is: what are we doing with it?

How Do We Push Through Resistance?

When we exercise our authority, we'll face resistance. Paul talks about fighting "the good fight of faith" because there is indeed a fight. The enemy will resist our efforts to walk in authority.

Think about pushing through a door - there's resistance, but you have to keep pushing until you break through. Are you going to allow the resistance of what you're facing to keep you where you are with an "old poor me attitude"? Or will you continue to press and push until you get to the other side where Jesus wants you to be?

Why Do We Need Community in This Fight?

We need each other to walk in our authority effectively. Our flesh will "act up" regardless of the devil's involvement, which is why we need brothers and sisters who will encourage, help, and strengthen us.

We need people who will pray with us, help us, encourage us, show us that we have authority to say no, and who will stand in agreement with us. The enemy wants us to keep our struggles to ourselves, but God designed us for community.

Life Application

Today is not the finish line - it's the starting point of your push against resistance. Here are some practical ways to apply what we've learned:

1. Recognize your authority: Acknowledge that through Christ, you have been given authority over the enemy. This isn't about your power but about the delegated authority from God.

2. Identify areas of resistance: Where is the enemy attacking your mind, will, or emotions? Name these areas specifically.

3. Use the Word as your weapon: Just as Jesus countered temptation with Scripture, arm yourself with God's Word to push back against the enemy's attacks.

Ask yourself:

• Am I fully utilizing the key of authority God has given me?

• Where have I been allowing the enemy to have influence in my life?

• What specific area do I need to push against with my God-given authority this week?

• Who can I connect with to help me stand firm in this authority?

Remember, you are not fighting for victory - you are fighting from a position of victory that Christ has already secured. The key of authority is already in your hand. Will you use it?

The Fig Tree

The Fig Tree and Faith: Producing Fruit in Your Christian Life

Are you producing fruit in your Christian life, or are you just full of leaves? Jesus had a powerful encounter with a fig tree that teaches us an important lesson about what God expects from His followers.

What Does the Fig Tree Teach Us About Our Christian Walk?

In Mark 11:12-14, we find Jesus hungry and approaching a fig tree that was in full leaf. Despite its lush appearance, the tree had no fruit. Even though it wasn't quite the season for figs, Jesus cursed the tree, saying "May no one ever eat your fruit again."

This might seem harsh at first glance, but there's a deeper meaning here. Fig trees in the Middle East have a unique characteristic - when they produce leaves in the springtime, they should also be producing figs. The figs actually start growing at the same time as the leaves, or even slightly before. So this tree was showing off with its leaves but failing to produce what it was supposed to.

The tree was essentially false advertising - displaying the appearance of fruitfulness without actually being fruitful.

Why Did Jesus Curse a Fruitless Tree?

This fig tree incident connects to a parable Jesus told in Luke 13:6-9 about a man who had a fig tree that produced no fruit for three years. The owner wanted to cut it down because it was wasting space, but the keeper asked for one more year to fertilize it and see if it would bear fruit.

Jesus had been in ministry for three years, preaching to everyone including the Pharisees. Yet many, especially the religious leaders, refused to produce fruit. After cursing the fig tree, Jesus went on to turn the temple upside down and then ultimately died for us.

The message is clear: God expects His followers to produce fruit. Being fruitless in God's kingdom is dangerous. Jesus called such a tree "a waste of space."

What's the Difference Between Leaves and Fruit in Our Spiritual Lives?

Leaves are important for a tree - they act as the tree's food source through photosynthesis. They take in sunlight, water, and carbon dioxide to produce glucose that gives the tree energy to live.

Similarly, spiritual "leaves" like prayer, Bible reading, and church attendance are important for our spiritual growth. These practices bring life and energy to us personally. But if that's all we have - if we're only concerned with our own spiritual nourishment - we're missing the point.

Fruit, on the other hand, contains seeds that can produce more trees, or it can be consumed to give life to others. Spiritual fruit isn't about us - it's about reproducing and feeding others.

Are You a Leafy Christian With No Fruit?

Many Christians are full of "green leaves" - they pray daily, read their Bible, attend church regularly - all good things! But if you're only doing these things for your own benefit without producing fruit, you might be what Jesus called "a waste of space in the kingdom of God."

This doesn't mean you're going to hell, but it does raise an important question: Did Jesus save us just so we as individuals don't go to hell? Or did He die on the cross so that His kingdom might be established on earth through us?

God gives us time to become fruitful. In the parable, the keeper asked for one more year to fertilize the tree. Sometimes the trials and pruning we experience are God's way of preparing us to produce fruit.

What Does Spiritual Fruit Look Like?

Galatians talks about the fruit of the Spirit - love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. But we often think about these qualities selfishly.

The fruit of the Spirit isn't about you - it's fruit produced through you because you are walking in the Spirit and not in your flesh. It's for others:

• Love (agape) - giving without expecting anything in return

• Joy - not just so you can be happy, but so your joy might overflow into others' lives

• Peace - not the absence of problems, but peace in the midst of storms that affects those around you

• Patience - not for your benefit, but for loving others better

• Kindness - speaking truth in love, not just being "nice" and agreeable

Are You Eating Your Own Fruit?

Some Christians have been blessed by God but are using those blessings only for themselves. Jesus told a parable about a farmer who had an abundant harvest and decided to build bigger barns to store it all so he could live in luxury. That farmer was called evil.

God wants to prosper us, but not just for our own benefit. He blesses us so we can be a blessing to others. Everything we have belongs to Him and should be used as fruit for His kingdom.

If God has given you gifts and you're using them only to benefit yourself, you're eating your own fruit. Those gifts are meant to serve others and build God's kingdom.

What About Faith and Doubt?

When it comes to faith, many think they need more faith to see breakthroughs in their lives. But Jesus said faith as small as a mustard seed can move mountains. The problem isn't a lack of faith - it's the presence of doubt.

Mark 11:23-24 says, "Whatever you ask, believe and do not doubt and it will be done." Most of God's promises have stipulations attached to them. We need to believe without doubting, and we need to forgive others (Mark 11:25).

Life Application

This week, examine your Christian life. Are you producing fruit, or are you just full of leaves? Here are some questions to consider:

1. How have you been using the things God has given you? Are you using them only to benefit yourself, or to serve others and build His kingdom?

2. What spiritual fruit are you producing in your life? How are you using the fruit of the Spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, etc.) to benefit others?

3. Are there areas where you've been walking in your flesh rather than in the Spirit? Consider taking time to fast and pray this month - not just for yourself, but for breakthroughs in your church, your family, and others around you.

4. Who can you invite to church this week? Can you commit to inviting five people a week to experience God?

Remember, being a Christian means denying ourselves, picking up our cross, and following Jesus. God isn't mad at you if you've been eating all your fruit and living for yourself, but He does want more for you. He loves you and wants you to experience the joy of being fruitful in His kingdom.

A Father’s Heart

A Father's Heart: The Difference Between Being a Father and a Daddy

There's a profound difference between simply being a father and truly being a daddy. While any man can hold the title of "father," it takes something special to earn the relationship title of "dad" or "daddy."

What's the Difference Between a Father and a Daddy?

A father signifies a title, but a dad signifies a relationship. Every man who has a child is technically a father, but not every father takes on the deeper role of being a dad. A father has a child, but a dad takes care of that child - emotionally, spiritually, and physically.

Some men like to have children but don't want the responsibility of raising them. As the saying goes, "If you play, you need to pay." Being a father and a dad isn't a part-time job - it requires full-time commitment on top of all the other daily tasks we handle.

How Can I Be a Good Dad When I Didn't Have One?

Many men struggle with this question. When my son was on the way, I sat in my car and thought, "I don't know how to be a daddy." My own father left when I was just 5 years old, choosing his own desires over having a family.

But God had a plan. He placed men in my life to help develop and shape me:

• My Uncle Herman, who taught me practical skills like hunting, fishing, and driving

• Brother Vaughn, who became my spiritual father

• Other spiritual mentors who guided me along the way

God knows you inside and out. He knew what He placed within you so you could become the dad He designed you to be. No matter what your father did or didn't do, God has a plan for you to be not just a father to your children, but to be their dad.

What Are the Keys to Being a Good Dad?

After 46 years of experience, I can share five simple but powerful principles that transformed my fatherhood journey:

1. Stay Consistent in Church
2. Give Consistently
3. Pray Regularly
I was raised to believe men shouldn't cry, but God showed me that in His presence, it's okay to be vulnerable. When we're tender before God, we'll be tender with our children.

4. Read and Study the Word
5. Tell Others What God Has Done for You

What Can We Learn from Jesus About Father-Child Relationships?

Jesus demonstrated the difference between acknowledging God as "Father" (title) and relating to Him as "Abba" or "Papa" (relationship):

• When speaking of God's authority, Jesus used the title "Father": "I must be about my Father's business" (Luke 2:49)

• When teaching others to pray: "Our Father which is in heaven" (Matthew 6:9)

• But when facing His greatest trial in Gethsemane, Jesus showed relationship: "Abba, Father... Take this cup away from me" (Mark 14:36)

In His most difficult moment, Jesus didn't just appeal to His Father's title - He cried out to His "Papa." This intimate relationship is available to us too. Galatians 4:6 tells us that "because you are sons, God has sent forth the Spirit of His Son into your hearts, crying 'Abba, Father.'"

How Important is Forgiveness in Fatherhood?

One crucial step in becoming the dad God called me to be was forgiving my own father. You might say, "You don't know what my father did to me." I don't, but I know the forgiving power of God.

When I forgave my dad, something amazing happened - he began to change. Eventually, I was able to share the gospel with him and lead him to Jesus. Now I know I'll see him again in heaven.

Forgiveness frees not just the person you're forgiving, but it frees you to become the father God designed you to be.

Life Application

This week, I challenge you to take intentional steps toward being not just a father, but a daddy to your children:

1. Choose one of the five principles mentioned (church attendance, giving, prayer, Bible study, or sharing your testimony) that you need to strengthen, and commit to it this week.

2. If you haven't forgiven your own father, take that step now. Ask God to help you release any bitterness or resentment.

3. Tell your family you love them - not just once, but regularly. Show them affection and make sure they know how much they mean to you.

Ask yourself these questions:

• Am I being intentional about my relationship with my children, or am I just filling the role of "father"?

• What one thing can I do this week to deepen my connection with my child?

• How can I better model for my children what it means to have a relationship with our Heavenly Father?

Remember, your children love you and look up to you. No matter how old they are, you're still their hero. Don't just be their father - be their daddy.

Praying in Tongues

Understanding the Holy Spirit: The Power of Praying in Tongues

The Holy Spirit is essential to our Christian walk. We cannot do what God has called us to do without Him. He is our comforter, which means He leads us into uncomfortable places where we need His comfort. Through His power, we can lay hands on the sick, cast out demons, and evangelize effectively—not by our own strength, but by His Spirit.

What is the calling on your life?

God has a calling on every believer's life. When we hear "calling," we often think of becoming a pastor, evangelist, or missionary. But how can we expect to reach people in far-off places if we can't even reach our neighbors?

Some of you may feel you've missed your calling because God spoke to your heart years ago, but you were afraid and ignored it. Perhaps the Holy Spirit is bringing that calling back to your remembrance today.

Why do we resist the Holy Spirit's leading?

Our flesh is always driven by comfort, but the Holy Spirit leads us to places where we need His comfort—which means uncomfortable circumstances. The good news is that if He leads you there, He will empower you there. It's not your power, ability, or strength that matters.

Many of us approach God with our own expectations, mindsets, and filters already in place, which prevents us from hearing Him clearly. When it comes to God, the Holy Spirit, and the Word, we need to be neutral—not expecting confirmation of what we already believe, but allowing ourselves to be transformed into Christ's image.

What keeps people from receiving the baptism of the Holy Spirit?

There are two main barriers that prevent people from receiving the baptism of the Holy Spirit:

1. Fear - Many people are afraid of speaking in tongues because they don't understand it. If you've read the gospels, Acts, and Romans, you should have a good understanding of what tongues is.

2. False teaching - Some believe that tongues and other spiritual gifts have ceased. They often misquote 1 Corinthians 13:8-12, which says tongues will cease "when that which is perfect has come." This isn't referring to the completed Bible but to when we see Jesus face to face in our glorified bodies.

What are the different types of tongues mentioned in the Bible?

There are four different types of tongues in Scripture, which explains why there seems to be contradictions when you read about it:

Two types for public use:

1. Tongues as a sign - This is what happened at Pentecost (Acts 2:5-12), where believers spoke in unknown languages that were understood by hearers from different nations. This was a sign to unbelievers.

2. Tongues with interpretation - This is when someone speaks in tongues in a church service, followed by an interpretation that edifies the whole body (1 Corinthians 12:10). Paul instructed that this should

Two types for private use:

1. Tongues as a personal prayer language - This is praying in the Spirit for personal edification (1 Corinthians 14:4). Paul said, "I will pray in the Spirit, and I will also pray in words I understand" (1 Corinthians 14:14-15).

2. Tongues for intercession - This is when the Holy Spirit helps us pray for others when we don't know what to pray for (Romans 8:26-28). The Spirit makes intercession for us with "groanings which cannot be uttered."

How can I receive the baptism of the Holy Spirit?

If you've asked for the baptism of the Holy Spirit but haven't received it:

1. Keep asking - Jesus said, "Knock and the door will be opened." Be diligent in seeking.

2. Repent of known willful sin - There's a difference between occasionally falling into sin and willfully giving yourself over to it. Acts 5:32 says the Holy Spirit is "given by God to those who obey Him."

3. Forgive others - Unforgiveness will keep you stuck. Forgive yourself, your parents, your neighbors—anyone you're holding resentment toward.

How do I know if I'm filled with the Holy Spirit?

While speaking in tongues is a sign, one of the biggest indicators that you are Spirit-filled is the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. If you claim to be Spirit-filled but lack self-control, you may have received the gift of tongues but are not currently surrendered to the Holy Spirit.

Life Application

This week, I challenge you to:

1. Surrender to the Holy Spirit daily - Start each morning by saying, "Holy Spirit, I surrender to you today. Lead me where you want me to go."

2. Practice praying in the Spirit - If you've received the gift of tongues, commit to praying in the Spirit for at least 20 minutes each day. If you haven't received this gift, ask God to fill you with His Spirit.

3. Identify areas of resistance - Where have you been resistant to the Holy Spirit's leading? Is there unforgiveness in your heart? Are there areas of willful sin you need to repent of?

4. Step out in faith - Is there something God has been calling you to do that you've been avoiding? Take one step toward obedience this week.

Ask yourself: Am I approaching God with my own agenda or with a neutral heart? Am I willing to go where the Holy Spirit leads, even if it's uncomfortable? What gifts of the Spirit am I neglecting that God wants to activate in my life?

Remember, the Holy Spirit doesn't just bring comfort—He brings power. And that power isn't just for you; it's to equip you to fulfill God's calling on your life.

THE BAPTISM OF THE HOLY SPIRIT

Understanding the Baptism of the Holy Spirit: A Foundational Teaching

Pentecost Sunday reminds us of one of the most important yet often misunderstood aspects of Christian faith - the baptism of the Holy Spirit. This foundational teaching is essential for believers who want to experience the fullness of what God has for them.

Why Is There So Much Division About the Holy Spirit?

When you see significant division in the body of Christ around a particular topic, you can be certain it's an area of great importance. The enemy doesn't want us united in our understanding of the Holy Spirit because unity around the Spirit brings power.

The Holy Spirit came upon the disciples in the upper room when they were united in prayer and obedience to Jesus. This unity preceded the outpouring of power that changed the world. The enemy's strategy is to divide believers on crucial matters, and few topics create more division than teachings about the Holy Spirit.

The Elementary Principles Every Christian Should Know

In Hebrews 6:1, the writer urges believers to move beyond basic teachings and become mature in their understanding. But what are these basic teachings that form our foundation?

The writer lists six elementary principles:

1. Repentance from dead works - True repentance means turning completely from self-worship to God-worship

2. Faith toward God - Placing our complete trust in God rather than ourselves

3. The doctrine of baptisms (plural) - Understanding the different baptisms mentioned in Scripture

4. Laying on of hands - A biblical practice for healing, impartation, and blessing

5. Resurrection of the dead - Understanding what happens after death

6. Eternal judgment - Recognizing we will all face judgment

These are the foundational teachings every Christian should understand before attempting to go deeper in their faith.

What Are the Five Baptisms in Scripture?

The word "baptism" (baptizo in Greek) means to immerse, submerge, or overwhelm. Scripture mentions five distinct baptisms:

1. Baptism of repentance - John the Baptist's baptism, representing complete immersion in repentance

2. Baptism into the body of Christ - When we are saved, we are fully immersed into Christ's body

3. Water baptism - The public declaration of our faith, identifying with Christ's death and resurrection

4. Baptism of the Holy Spirit - Being completely immersed in and empowered by the Holy Spirit

5. Baptism of fire/suffering - The refining process that matures us in Christ

Each baptism represents a complete immersion, not a partial experience.

Who Is the Holy Spirit?

The Holy Spirit is not an "it" but a person - the third person of the Trinity. While the Trinity can be difficult to fully comprehend (if we could fully understand God, we would be God), we must recognize the Holy Spirit as God Himself.

Jesus called the Holy Spirit our "Helper" (John 14:15-18), who would abide with us forever. The Holy Spirit is our advocate who desires intimate fellowship with us. In 2 Corinthians 13:14, Paul refers to "the fellowship of the Holy Spirit," using the Greek word "koinonia," which implies deep intimacy and communion.

The Promise of the Holy Spirit's Power

In Acts 1:4-8, Jesus commanded His disciples not to leave Jerusalem until they received the promised gift - the baptism of the Holy Spirit. He told them: "You will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you. And you will be my witnesses, telling people about me everywhere."

This promise wasn't just for the original disciples but for all believers. We need the Holy Spirit's power to effectively build God's church and fulfill our calling.

The Difference Between Indwelling and Baptism

When you are saved, the Holy Spirit comes to live inside you. Your spirit is regenerated, and you become alive in Christ. The Holy Spirit speaks to your heart and guides you.

However, the baptism of the Holy Spirit is different - it's being completely immersed in the Spirit. Rather than just having the Spirit in you, you are in the Spirit. This represents a complete surrender to the Holy Spirit, allowing Him to flow through you with power and anointing.

In Acts 19:1-7, Paul encountered believers who had not yet received the Holy Spirit. He asked them, "Did you receive the Holy Spirit when you believed?" When they said no, Paul laid hands on them, "the Holy Spirit came on them, and they spoke in tongues and prophesied."

How Do You Receive the Baptism of the Holy Spirit?

Jesus made it clear in Luke 11:9-13 that receiving the Holy Spirit is as simple as asking:

"So I tell you, keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for... how much more will your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?"

Some people haven't received the baptism of the Holy Spirit simply because they haven't asked for it. Others hold back out of fear - fear of receiving "another spirit" or fear of appearing strange.

But Jesus assures us that if we ask the Father for the Holy Spirit, He won't give us anything harmful. The Father gives good gifts to His children.

Life Application

The baptism of the Holy Spirit is not an optional add-on to your Christian life but a foundational element that empowers you to live beyond your natural abilities. Here are some practical steps to take:

1. Examine your understanding: Have you been taught that the baptism of the Holy Spirit was only for the early church? Or have negative experiences made you hesitant? Ask God to give you clarity through His Word.

2. Read through the Book of Acts: See how the early believers relied completely on the Holy Spirit for guidance, power, and effectiveness in ministry.

3. Ask with childlike faith: Come to God with simple trust, asking Him to fill you with His Spirit. You don't need a special ceremony - just knock, seek, and ask.

4. Surrender completely: The baptism of the Holy Spirit requires letting go of control and fully surrendering to God's purposes.

5. Stir up the gift: If you've received the baptism of the Holy Spirit but have neglected this gift, it's time to stir it up again (2 Timothy 1:6).

Questions to Consider:

• Have I received all that God has for me, including the baptism of the Holy Spirit?

• What fears or misconceptions might be holding me back from experiencing the fullness of the Spirit?

• Am I trying to accomplish God's purposes through my own strength rather than through His power?

• How might my effectiveness in sharing Christ be different if I were fully empowered by the Holy Spirit?

God wants to fill you with His Spirit not to make you weird, but to make you powerful - powerful in love, powerful in witness, and powerful in advancing His kingdom. Will you ask Him today?